Today, I will be sharing with you one of the messages by the co-ordination of the Singles Frank Talk (Pastor Ezekiel Attang.)
Why Many Wives Get Frustrated in Life
1 Corinthians 11:3, 5, 10 KJV
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.
Here lies the one scripture that has divided the body of Christ all over the world more than any other scripture I know. I am going or make is as simple as I can here. Firstly the scripture is basically referring to headship and not the physical head. It starts by stating who the head of Christ is, which is God. And then it states that the head of every man is Christ. And every man here refers male and female, otherwise you would have to remove the women from the church, because Christ is the head of the church, which is made up of male and female.
Then it goes on to say when we pray (both male and female) covering our head (which is Christ) we dishounor our head. Christ should not be covered because He is perfect and without blemish. We should display Him for the world to see. But the scripture now narrows down to wives specifically. By saying, if a woman prays with her head uncovered she dishonors her head which is her husband. Why? Because he is imperfect, and full of faults. So to cover here means to hide his faults and to relate or present him as though he were perfect. But many wives would insult, abuse, disregard and ignore their husbands, and then run off to pray or preach and then expect their lives to run smoothly. No way. It doesn’t work like that.
Such women will become very frustrated in life. God does not expect you to insult your husband and the get Him to hear and answer your prayers because of a small piece of cloth on your hair. According to Proverbs 12:4, you were designed to be a crown to your husband, which is your head. Crown beautifies the head of the carrier. You are to make your husband look good; you are to become the helper of his weaknesses, and not to shame him for what he is not good at. Failure in this assignment will make the angels to disregard you in the realm of the spirit as well.
They will refuse to take your prayers to God and to bring you back answers as we saw with Jacob in Genesis 28. It could cause sicknesses, carrier frustrations, barrenness and anything else that could make you happy.
You were designed to help your husband and not to put him down; you have been anointed to work with him and for him and not against him or God will work against you the way He worked against Michal, the wife of King David. When we do the reverse of what we were meant to do God can turn our wisdom or gift to foolishness, the way He turned the wisdom of Ahitophel to foolishness, for trying to use a gift meant to serve the king (David), to serve a rebel like Absalom.
You shall not be frustrated in Jesus Name.
i. Repent of everything you have been doing to your husband that has caused him pain or grief. And ask the Lord to help you forth with.
ii. Ask the Lord to remove all forms of negative attitude and character in your life that is frustrating your marriage.
iii. Have a discussion with your husband and ask him to tell you anything you can do to make his life better and smoother.
God does not expect you to insult your husband and the get Him to hear and answer your prayers because of a small piece of cloth on your hair.
P. Ezekiel Atang
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